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billywhitebread
August 30th, 2004, 03:06 PM
ok boys and girls, i need some direction.

i'm the worship leader at a small neighborhood church. we've been through our share of struggles and just built a new sanctuary/building. our pastor is bi-vocational. today in my e-mail he sent me his letter of resignation and a two week notice that he can no longer serve. he owns his own business as well as takes on too many of the responsibilities at church. he dosen't ask for help and has done so much that the congregation basically just expects it of him. there were no signs of burnout even this past sunday all seemed "normal".

he told me that i was the only one that he has sent it to as i'm also chairman of the church council. nobody else knows or has a clue yet. here is what i need to know...he and i are meeting tonite to talk about this. i don't think that he's thought this all the way through and i think he avoided praying about it, if that makes sense. if he were being called to another church, to serve somewhere else i could understand but his only answer to me is that he was burned out and tired/frustrated that we seem to lack orginization/structre in getting things done.

some of this falls back on me and i understand that completely.

what do i do, say, pray for, etc....any insight?

andy
August 30th, 2004, 03:15 PM
Hello :wave

First, I am sorry for the trouble your church is going through. Sometimes it does seem to be one thing after another.

Would your pastor consider an extended vacation or a leave of absence to "recharge" so to speak. Sometimes we all need a break and just relax alittle.

I pray that our Lord speaks to your pastor and you concerning the right thing to do.

God bless!

Singlesis
August 30th, 2004, 04:20 PM
Yes, I think the word is "sabbatical"... all pastors need a break from the heavy load they carry, especially if he is bi-vocational. Encourage him to take some time off to pray about it, and be absolutely sure what God wants of him.

However, if it's God's will to move him on, then He (God) must have something else in mind for your church. The Lord won't leave you high and dry.

Praying for you!!! Let us know how the meeting goes.

Mark Armstrong
August 30th, 2004, 09:53 PM
How did the meeting turn out?

tennismenace
August 30th, 2004, 10:31 PM
I'd say it's time to look for another one. They're out there. Those who are called are waiting for your call. Pick up the phone brother!

billywhitebread
August 31st, 2004, 08:33 AM
just a quick update!

after a good meeting with him, he has decided to hold onto his resignation and seriously pray about it. as with any bi-vocational pastor he was just seriously in need of some rest...God truly blessed us last night, i'd go into detail but its too much to post here, lets just say your prayers were answered and i got to see God work in a mighty and merciful way....ever witness grace?

anyway, thank you for your prayer support, we do serve a mighty and loving Creator...