Hubby's Acquaintance Who sends Off Color Emails

[NewCreation]

My husband is not saved, doesn't see anything wrong with them. He laughs at some of them. Sometimes they are really bad - like this morning - I opened it and it was a man using a remote control to .....well, I won't describe it...:tape

I deleted it - in fact I've deleted a lot of them before my husband sees them. I feel that's wrong.. yet, I feel justified in doing it...

What can I do? Should I do anything?

[MrsG0529]

You could try asking him if he would talk to his friend about sending them as they offend you. Other than that, there isn't much you can do really. Would it help if you got a separate e mail address? My husband and I have separate ones just so we don't have to wade through each other's junk to get to our junk.

As far as deleting them...I personally don't think that is your place. He is your husband, your equal, not your child. He is big enough to make his own decisions about what he watches/sees. If what he does doesn't please God, that is between him and God. Your job is to pray for him and be an example to him...without nagging. Trust me, I know it isn't easy.

1Pe 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, [be] in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;

I'll be praying for your situation.http://www.1scom.net/~lilbratt/Smilies/love6.gif

[Gary]

I'm having the same problem with DW's cousin. The biggest problem is; she keeps sending them to the "family" E-Mail at Hotmail and the kids have seen them. Some of them are outright pornographic. I've told dw to get her cousin to stop sending them or I will have her blocked.

[NewCreation]

I've thought about saying something to my husband, but this is a person who is well-liked by all the "buddies." I know what my husband's reaction would be...........:mad :mad :mad :mad

He's a hard person to talk to, very explosive

That's why I haven't said anything....:(:

[cameron222]

Begin praying for his deliverance. Use spiritual warfare. Declare
in the spirit that the vulgar e-mails coming through your computer will no longer be allowed and that they become blocked before they arrive.

Pray for your husband's anger to be calmed and for the Holy Spirit to convict him of his sins.....

Then sit back and watch God at work.........